Monday 5 December 2011

How to Make Boyfriend Happy

Boys are simple yet complicated creatures. It is not easy to understand what they want but it is not difficult either. Here are some basic tips on how to make most boys happy in general. Boyfriends knowingly or unknowingly expect this from their girlfriends. Here are 10 tips on how to make your boyfriend happy:

1. Laugh at his jokes

Laughing at his jokes will show him that you are genuinely interested in him and he will start enjoying your company even more.

2. Compliment him

It will boost his self esteem. It is a great way to flirt with your boyfriend. Compliment him over small things but make sure you really mean it.

3. Respect him

Talk to him with respect. Even when you are talking about your boyfriend to others, always respect him. Don’t belittle him and make him feel like a loser. Become his strength and soon you will become his only weakness.

4. Trust him

Doesn’t mean you have to close your eyes and believe every word he says. But, also make sure you don’t show him any signs of distrust. No boy can tolerate his girlfriend not trusting him. So learn to trust him.

5. Listen to him

They may not say it, but boys like to be heard. They certainly don’t like a girl who keeps on talking without listening. Whenever he opens up to you, listen to him attentively. It will make him feel closer to you.

6. Be easy going

Don’t be difficult to deal with. Be someone who he can feel comfortable to deal with. Don’t get angry when he playfully teases you. Just play along. Be fun and don’t whine and grumble all the time.

7. Love him unconditionally

Shower him with love and attention. Do things that make him feel special and important. Plan surprises for him. Show him that you value him more than anybody else.

8. Don’t dominate him

You are his girlfriend, not his mother. So unless you are dating a three-year-old, there is no reason why you should tell him what to do all the time. Advice him only when he asks for it. Don’t rule his life or soon he will start feeling suffocated around you.

9. Respect the people who are important to him

This goes for both his family and his friends. Also respect the hobbies that mean a lot to him. Show interest in things that interest him.

10. Break up with him

If none of the above work on him and he is still not happy with you, don’t drag your relationship for long. Sometimes it is better to part ways. End the relationship peacefully.
These are the ways that tell you about how to make your boyfriend happy. Please remember, no matter what you do, don’t be fake. Be yourself and be proud of it. Only then you can expect him to respect you. You cannot expect someone to be happy with you, if you are not happy with yourself.

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